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Gift Giving

12/12/2017

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It's that time, when we are gift giving.
I have been thinking about how to help people make decisions relative to giving the gift of massage.
It's a great gift for someone who is curious or alright with this process (though many don't know the actual process); or familiar open to the idea of receiving massage (some say: being touched by a stranger - even when it's a trained stranger, it can be intimidating).
It's a personal gift, because you need to know a person well enough to know if they'll welcome experiencing massage.
Some insights I'd like to share, if you are thinking about giving this as a gift.
Consider where you are purchasing this gift and be willing to pay a reasonable amount (not club discount) for that gift.
You want to know the practitioner (license number) and how long have they been practicing. You can look up licenses on the OBMT (OR Board of Massage Therapists). A recently licensed may be issued to someone who has been practicing massage in another state; so inquire about their experience. I look for someone who has a minimum of 3 years - consistent experience (more than 1-2 clients per week). Otherwise, go to one of massage schools and purchase your gift cert.. - there are instructors present to help, at the schools.
I am an independent practitioner; and as such, I recommend buying with an independent practitioner (not the big corporate businesses) or small local spa where you know practitioner. I advise this, because there is no guarantee who the practitioner that actually provides the massage, will be if it is a larger Corporate company.
I personally limit how many gift certificates I can sell during this season as I need to be able to provide massage to those who are receiving; and, to do so in the near future. Likewise, I have had "receivers" who do not call right away, so I like to have information as to how to contact the receiver (or the one giving the gift) so I can follow-up after 3 months. I've been known to send money back to those who purchased a gift certificate which has not been used by the end of the year.
Both Independent practitioner and Corporate businesses have package pricing, if you want to purchase more than one certificate.
Buy at a location somewhat close to where the "receiver" lives (post massage travel needs to be easy). An option is to extend the gift and arrange to drive and pickup the person you are giving the gift to. Take care of any obligations they have that may make scheduling their time more challenging. If they have children, offer child care. If they are a "care-giver", offer to fill-in when they go for massage, etc.
Consider whether to give an hour or 1-1/2 hour massage gift. The hour is better (I think) for someone who has never had a massage. You want to check though, as to whether that hour is full "hands-on" time; or, "appointment" time (which means hands-on will be about 45-50 minutes so room can be turned by the hour). A longer massage time is for someone who can truly appreciate taking time out to relax, and "sink into" receiving this healing gift. Well celebrated.
Finally, what is the facility like? Is the facility clean and do you get a sense of serenity, when you are there? Some have a clinical atmosphere, and that can be good for those who prefer to focus on the "medicinal" benefits of massage. This environment can be more relaxing to some... again, personal choices. 
If you are a person wanting a massage gift certificate, put it on your list of gift requests and be specific.

These are a few of the thoughts I wanted to share and hope it is helpful. Giving the "gift of massage", is truly a "thought-filled, caring gift". Massage helps with stress reduction; a sense of rejuvenation, easing depression or grief; with detox in the body via movement of fluids (sinus, lymph, urine); and in general, reconnecting with one's inner to outer self. Like taking a short vacation.

If you have any questions, please inquire. I do have gift certificates available (1-hr: 70.00; 1-1/2 hour: 90.00; inquire about 4-plus pkg prices). 

Hope this is helpful.
Linda
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Office Relocation

5/18/2015

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It's been quite some time since I posted to the Blog.  It is my desire to become more consistent with posting, as I've had several insights develop since returning to massage work, that I'd like to share.  I moved from Portland 4 years ago and as a result of my brother becoming ill, I returned.  He has improved and I decided to utilize my massage license and return to practice.  I found a great office last September and launched into the new venture. 
I found out how different it is when you are "beginning again", especially in a situation of being solo with no significant clientele.  Previously, my practice was by client referrals but that does not occur as you first begin again.  I've realized how different these times are relative to starting over to build a practice.  Nothing like a perspective adjustment!
Simultaneously, I have been in the process of re-licensing and completing continuing education requirements. Attending classes, reminded me how much I enjoy being with other therapists and sharing about massage techniques, business ideas, etc.  
Then, while awaiting clients when providing chair massage, another LMT approached me. We shared about our massage practices and I learned that her office was located very near my office.  She was part of a group of independent therapist's sharing space at Massage Naturally. She was open and I am very grateful for her approaching me to share and let me know there was space available there.  Some would say:  "there are no accidents". 
Since that meet-up, situations have occurred that provided me the opportunity to become one of the practitioners, sharing space at Massage Naturally. I moved this past weekend, contact phone number remains the same. I hope you will come experience the great atmosphere there, and provide me the opportunity of working with you.  Evolving, ever evolving..... 

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Staying Positive

1/9/2015

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This morning I was discussing with a friend about when we become physically ill, it can be a signal that we need a good detox - on all levels of our being:  physical, emotional, mental, and even reach to the spiritual.  It is a process and if we can allow it, I think we can observe ourselves and learn.  My mind goes to "memories" and often time, not pleasant ones when I am ill.  So, here's what I came out with from the last cold I had where I was feverish, sleeping in spurts of hours, and then waking to have the mental negativity going across my mind.

"Your soul is sparkling, so when you mind goes dark, use some of the glitter from your soul to spark positive thought.."


I see our soul's as light.  Just as the image on my website shows the hands with the ball of light between, our souls seem like that with sparkles.  I started counting the ways I am supported in my life and basically, my blessings.  Honoring the process and grateful for the insight.

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Empath???

1/8/2015

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For some time now, I have been weighing the word and meaning of Empath.  I think many people are / can be empathic.  When I was in massage school, one of the teachers said you need to have empathy, not sympathy.  The meaning being, that we as therapists, enter into our client's field of energy.  All living things possess an energy field which is vibratory and generally emanates beyond the visible physical presence.  As therapists, we bring our own energy next to the massage table as we simultaneously enter into our client's energy field. 
When working with clients in giving a massage, we will stir up "issues" that have emotional connections: sore muscles, injury, stress, etc etc.  We are "sensing" the areas in a client's body where they hold stress /tension. We must take care to not "take these on" within our own minds and into our own bodies.  That would be having "sympathy".  You want to fix a client to the point of "integrating" their stresses and claiming as your own.
Empathy, is in recognizing the issue in the client with respect and acknowledgement, working on the issue to the best of our experience/training/techniques (our hands are our tools so each of us is uniquely equipped), and not taking on what your hands and mind are aware of; or, what the client may express or share as they release their issues / tensions.  The issue is the client's issue.  Who among us has not experienced a situation that has made us "tense up"  (and for some working environments, this is continual to adrenal exhaustion); or, felt the loss of love, grief, anger, etc.  We identify; and as such, are more easily subject to wanting to take-on another person's stuff.
Emotional states are endless; and as an Empath, I can sense the vibe from people even when I am not standing in their field of energy.  This is another level of being. Some people are "just that sensitive" and may even have been categorized in some way relating to being overly sensitive, too much into drama, reactive, etc.  You may not recognize it within yourself, define it (own it), so you can work with it and "not take on" what isn't yours.  Often, this type of sensitivity is given to being "female"in nature.  If a man is an Empath and is sensitive, he may be accused of being gay, or too soft, or...?  Our society has so many ways of encouraging people to "not sense beyond themselves" and to "not trust themselves".  First step is to know you are that sensitive; and then, you can learn techniques to clear and stand strong in your own identity without taking on the stuff that doesn't belong to you. Whether you identify or not. I celebrate the growth of consciousness and acceptance. An Empath
has to take the time to stop and assess the vibration that is their own (particularly relative to emotions) and separate that from what you have "collected" in your day's experiences.  
Massage offers the time to "get the knots worked out" and take assessment of our "state of being". That's the work we can do within ourselves facilitated by an experienced, empathetic therapist.  I like to say that I "sculpt bodies" since I am sensing beyond the layer of flesh to how the bodies tensions connect to the person's emotions or mental state.  Reaching to unwind the knot that may have developed from excess exercise, sleeping in a bad position, being in a tense situation, grief from a loss, etc. Sculpting the bodies (physical, emotional, mental) to a place and state of balance within. Standing in reach of this shifting that clients make, is a great honor.
What are your thoughts on being an Empath? Have you known and empathic person?
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